Trouble Kids
Last year when I coached younger kids, most kids were very polite. They listened well and had lots of respect for the coach.
This year, coaching a bit older kids, I had about 5 kids who were "trouble kids". These are 11 year olds who didn't know how to behave. Spoiled, if you will. In one instance I tried teaching this kid how to shoot correctly. I spent 15 minutes of my time just showing him how to shoot. He kept giving me blank looks and would reluctantly do what I asked him. After I was done, he went right back to shooting with his toes.
There was another kid who was sitting outside during a game. I asked him to get ready to go in. He replied: "it's too hot coach!".
Then there are kids who cannot stop talking to each other. They can be very disruptive to the practices and even during games.
I also had a couple of occassions where two kids got into a pushing match with each other.
A few weeks ago a lady came over during practice and asked if her son could practice with us. "fine" I said. He was a big kid, a bit out of shape.
I put the kid in defense. Five minutes later he came to me and said: "can I play forward?". I said that's fine. I switched his position with another player. Again, five minutes later: "can I play goalkeeper?". "Allright" go ahead and play goalkeeper. A few minutes later he came to me and said: "why are those cones over there?" That's where people cross the ball from, I said. "But that's not the object of the practice" He replied with all his wisdom.
It doesn't matter how you respond to these kids. Many of them are forced by their parents to play and don't really want to be there. Maybe they are thinking: "this is too hard...I should have played baseball this season".
There are several ways to deal with situations like this. For one thing, making kids run laps for misconduct might be an option. But more importantly they need to understand that their behavior is disruptive. Some kids just shape up when they understand the situation. Others, keep on doing what they are doing.
Write an email to the parents and explain the situation. It usually resolves the problem. A bigger problem arises if the parent takes the side of the kid. I had one parent do that to me last season: "my son is a top student at school...he is a great kid..."
Fine. At the end of season, he found himself in a lower division team.
This year, coaching a bit older kids, I had about 5 kids who were "trouble kids". These are 11 year olds who didn't know how to behave. Spoiled, if you will. In one instance I tried teaching this kid how to shoot correctly. I spent 15 minutes of my time just showing him how to shoot. He kept giving me blank looks and would reluctantly do what I asked him. After I was done, he went right back to shooting with his toes.
There was another kid who was sitting outside during a game. I asked him to get ready to go in. He replied: "it's too hot coach!".
Then there are kids who cannot stop talking to each other. They can be very disruptive to the practices and even during games.
I also had a couple of occassions where two kids got into a pushing match with each other.
A few weeks ago a lady came over during practice and asked if her son could practice with us. "fine" I said. He was a big kid, a bit out of shape.
I put the kid in defense. Five minutes later he came to me and said: "can I play forward?". I said that's fine. I switched his position with another player. Again, five minutes later: "can I play goalkeeper?". "Allright" go ahead and play goalkeeper. A few minutes later he came to me and said: "why are those cones over there?" That's where people cross the ball from, I said. "But that's not the object of the practice" He replied with all his wisdom.
It doesn't matter how you respond to these kids. Many of them are forced by their parents to play and don't really want to be there. Maybe they are thinking: "this is too hard...I should have played baseball this season".
There are several ways to deal with situations like this. For one thing, making kids run laps for misconduct might be an option. But more importantly they need to understand that their behavior is disruptive. Some kids just shape up when they understand the situation. Others, keep on doing what they are doing.
Write an email to the parents and explain the situation. It usually resolves the problem. A bigger problem arises if the parent takes the side of the kid. I had one parent do that to me last season: "my son is a top student at school...he is a great kid..."
Fine. At the end of season, he found himself in a lower division team.
